The former tronista of Men and Women, Ludovica Valli, took to social media to talk about the importance of getting help managing everything when you become a parent. Here’s what she said!
Recently, influencers have come under fire due to the excessive display of wealth, luxury and privileged lives that many lead due to their work. Among them, also Beatrice e Ludovica Valliboth former protagonists of Men and women and very well known on social media, where they are followed by thousands of followers. Recently, the youngest of the sisters Valli However, he decided to publish an intervention on social media and clarify his thoughts regarding the choice of seeking help from a domestica at home, especially, if you have small children and you work.
Uomini e Donne, Ludovica Valli responds on social media to those who criticize her choice to hire a maid: “Get help, it’s not wrong if…”
In recent weeks, as Selvaggia Lucarelli pointed out, also following the pandoro-gate that hit Chiara Ferragni, the public’s opinion on influencers seems to have changed a lot. Although they were much criticized before, now it seems that the excessive ostentation of a privileged and rich life provokes more annoyance and negative comments than admiration. This is what emerged especially when the influencer admit to getting help in their daily lives from babysitters or housekeepers to manage work, children and the house. A perfectly understandable choice, but one that has always sparked a lot of criticism, both for the vision of “super mothers” that women are still forced to hire, and because hiring babysitters and housekeepers is certainly not something cheap.
Regarding the issue, he decided to intervene on social media Ludovica Valli who, together with her sister Beatrice Valli, was often targeted for her lifestyle. The former tronista of the dating show Canale5 conducted by Maria De Filippidivides her life and that of her family between Milan and Ibiza, where her partner Gianmaria works and she told her fans that in the Lombard capital she has a maid who helps her manage the housewhile in Ibiza she takes care of everything, with many difficulties, having to manage two (soon to be three) very small children.
A few hours ago she decided to respond to those who accused her of being privileged and leading a comfortable life and thus published a long message in which she decided to have her say. Ludovica Valli she admitted that she has a trusted person who helps her in Milan and that there is nothing wrong with getting help. The influencer revealed that in his way of seeing things it is important to ask for help, so as not to get stressed and then not take away precious time from family and loved ones:
“In Milan I have a trusted person who has been helping me for 3 years now, so many hours a week, only with the biggest chores around the house. Otherwise I wouldn’t even be able to pursue my work and it wouldn’t be fair. I’ve learned to stop helping so as not to take time away from my children or my work – she emphasizes – Don’t start saying I work, I clean the house, I have 10 dogs, 18 cats, a goldfish… and I do everything by myself, because that’s not the case. Being everywhere and doing everything well is something you can’t do if you’re just one person…”
The influencer then urged fans to ask for help if necessary, because it is not right to feel bad just because according to some people, asking for help is seen as a weakness:
“So, those people who come to you and are just waiting to make you feel bad, make you feel bad, or even just make you feel less than them just because you ask for help…tell them to go to hell”
Men and Women, controversy over the lifestyle of influencers, also targeting the Valli sisters
Recently, a storm had hit Beatrice Valli for her statements regarding the help she received at home. The former suitor, in fact, had declared that although she used a domestic worker, she did not trust her cleaning methods and preferred to take care of it personally.
A comment that the fans didn’t like, who had accused Beatrice of being snobbish and one of the many negative comments scattered on the web Ludovica Valli she had left a like, showing that she shared the web’s opinion about her sister. Then when the storm hit her, it was she who calmed the haters down. Sandra Malavisimother of three sisters Vallito intervene, defending the daughters.
In a long message on social media, the influencers’ mother had said that she had raised three independent and intelligent daughters, with important values. Each of them had always worked hard to get the career of their dreams and they were certainly not born as princesses, but they had honestly earned everything they had:
“I’m the mother and you’re really exaggerating and saying mean things. You can’t know anything about them and what they’ve done. They’ve always been simple girls and they’ve always worked to have something that I couldn’t give them. Calm down because they didn’t offend anyone and they weren’t born princesses. They aren’t princesses today either. You always understand what you want, enough with this evil.
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