The appeal on social media of a young man from Olbia looking for friends.
It happens, in times where everything is frenetic and you don’t have time to even pay attention to own needsto neglect the discomfort of those around us. More and more people suffer from lonelinesspartly because they are unable to express their own uneasepartly because the external environment is not receptive And sensitive from this point of view. It also happens in Olbia, where many complain about the difficulty in changing “friendships”, often consolidated groups from years of shared life in which the inclusion of new elements is not “necessary” and therefore not contemplated. This is what is happening to a 30 year old from Olbiawho decided to publish an anonymous message in the Facebook group “You are from Olbia if…”.
“Hello everyone, I don’t know if this is the right place to post this, but I’ll try – says the young man -. I’m a 30 year old boy from Olbia. I would like make friends with new people. Unfortunately I am a person very introverted and I have quite a bit difficulty establishing relationshipsalso because to me I don’t like locals And I don’t like nightlife very much, so I think that really affects the ability to build relationships.”
Not conforming can mean exclusion.
The 30-year-old does not frequent the clubs included in the Olbia nightlife tour. This does not exclude that he is interested in having social relationsbut often do not conform to the masses it is a real “condemnation” to loneliness. “On the other hand, however, I like watching the wrestlinglisten to the metal and play games videogames – he continues -, I consider myself quite nerdy. I know it will be difficult to find someone after saying all this. But if you would like to try making friends and then maybe go for a coffee or whatever, comment and I’ll send you a message. Sorry if I’m writing from anonymousbut precisely, because of the shynessI tend to stay Reserved“, he concludes.
Although, as several people have pointed out in the comments, It’s really difficult to find new friends in Olbiathe appeal elicited various responses, from “nerd brothers” but also by people with quite different interests and livesto testify to the sensitivity of people on the topic of loneliness. The thirty-year-old had the courage to expose himself and look for a solution, and it seems that Olbia responded: “Present”. Unfortunately many people fail to express this need and to look for an escape route and end up victims of a loneliness which in some cases can dramatically lead to depression and abandonment, inindifference of those around us.
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