At 61 years old and with 40 years of career behind and a son of 25. Nancy Brilli He decided to overcome his fears. Including parachuting. Now, he tells the weekly People «I want to laugh, have fun, let myself be surprised by life. I am in the mood for changes and I satisfy them ».
It was not easy, but it succeeded. «Over the years I have learned to love myself, to accept and appreciate myself. As a girl I was hypersensitive, frightened by people, by their judgment, my concern was that of pleasure at all costs. I looked at myself in the mirror and, first of all, I stared at the defects: the hair too curly, the physique too forming, the strange eyes. I was always wearing a smiling mask, but inside me there were more than other sadness and poor self -esteem. I was hard to myself ». Then he decided to accept his fragility and to observe himself with more indulgence. Then “maybe the end of my love stories forced me to stop me and take a new consciousness of me. But for some time, thanks to the analysis, the encounter with a spiritual father, the affection of friends who love me, I started to resume altitude ».
At his side today there is his son Francesco.
But only on the weekend, when he returns from Umbria. «He works for a fashion company, deals with marketing. It’s special, it’s my pride ». To people Nancy Brilli describes themselves as an “affectionate, present, careful, but capable of saying no, giving rules and limits. For him I was the mother I wanted to have. I lost mine that I was 10 years old: it was such a trauma that she had no memory and memories related to her. I made hypnosis sessions to try to recover them, but for now nothing. I just know that mom was a beautiful woman ».
Speaking of men: «I have spasmers, yes, but I’m alone. In these years of singletitude, in which I have had frequentations, I was very amazed by the quantity of married men who feel us. I find it of a sadness … » Men to whom he has always said no: “I would never go with a man engaged with another”.
Today he wants to fall in love but “losing his head, as it happened as a girl, I say no. Instead share a path, laugh at the same things, I would like it, but I don’t look for a boyfriend at all costs. (…) Now I have found the balance and I’m fine. And I’m selective ». But if he really arrives then. «I would like to be a solved man next to it, who supports for me because before it happened that, after a while, the competition came automatically. I have often been asked to leave my job … ».
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